[performance] reduce InboxForward->Create calls by partially implementing Exists() (#3647)

* alphabetical reordering

* keep a cache of activity IDs we have handled creates for

* reduce number of inbox forwarding create calls by partially implementing Exists()

* increase cache size, since all we're storing is string keys

internal/federation/federatingdb/create.go

@@ -63,6 +63,10 @@ func (f *federatingDB) Create(ctx context.Context, asType vocab.Type) error {
 		return nil
 	}
 
+	// Cache entry for this create activity ID for later
+	// checks in the Exist() function if we see it again.
+	f.activityIDs.Set(ap.GetJSONLDId(asType).String(), struct{}{})
+
 	switch name := asType.GetTypeName(); name {
 	case ap.ActivityBlock:
 		// BLOCK SOMETHING