[chore] update dependencies (#4196)

- go.opentelemetry.io/contrib/exporters/autoexport v0.60.0 -> v0.61.0
- go.opentelemetry.io/contrib/instrumentation/runtime v0.60.0 -> v0.61.0

Reviewed-on: https://codeberg.org/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/pulls/4196
Co-authored-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>
Co-committed-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>

vendor/github.com/grpc-ecosystem/grpc-gateway/v2/runtime/handler.go

@@ -153,12 +153,10 @@ type responseBody interface {
 // ForwardResponseMessage forwards the message "resp" from gRPC server to REST client.
 func ForwardResponseMessage(ctx context.Context, mux *ServeMux, marshaler Marshaler, w http.ResponseWriter, req *http.Request, resp proto.Message, opts ...func(context.Context, http.ResponseWriter, proto.Message) error) {
 	md, ok := ServerMetadataFromContext(ctx)
-	if !ok {
-		grpclog.Error("Failed to extract ServerMetadata from context")
+	if ok {
+		handleForwardResponseServerMetadata(w, mux, md)
 	}
 
-	handleForwardResponseServerMetadata(w, mux, md)
-
 	// RFC 7230 https://tools.ietf.org/html/rfc7230#section-4.1.2
 	// Unless the request includes a TE header field indicating "trailers"
 	// is acceptable, as described in Section 4.3, a server SHOULD NOT
@@ -166,7 +164,7 @@ func ForwardResponseMessage(ctx context.Context, mux *ServeMux, marshaler Marsha
 	// agent to receive.
 	doForwardTrailers := requestAcceptsTrailers(req)
 
-	if doForwardTrailers {
+	if ok && doForwardTrailers {
 		handleForwardResponseTrailerHeader(w, mux, md)
 		w.Header().Set("Transfer-Encoding", "chunked")
 	}
@@ -204,7 +202,7 @@ func ForwardResponseMessage(ctx context.Context, mux *ServeMux, marshaler Marsha
 		grpclog.Errorf("Failed to write response: %v", err)
 	}
 
-	if doForwardTrailers {
+	if ok && doForwardTrailers {
 		handleForwardResponseTrailer(w, mux, md)
 	}
 }