[performance] improved request batching (removes need for queueing) (#1687)

* revamp http client to not limit requests, instead use sender worker

Signed-off-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>

* remove separate sender worker pool, spawn 2*GOMAXPROCS batch senders each time, no need for transport cache sweeping

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* improve batch senders to keep popping recipients until remote URL found

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* fix recipient looping issue

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* fix missing mutex unlock

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* move request id ctx key to gtscontext, finish filling out more code comments, add basic support for not logging client IP

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* slight code reformatting

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* a whitespace

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* remove unused code

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* add missing license headers

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* fix request backoff calculation

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Signed-off-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>

internal/processing/util.go

@@ -24,9 +24,9 @@ import (
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/config"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/db"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/federation"
+	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/gtscontext"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/gtsmodel"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/id"
-	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/transport"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/util"
 )
 
@@ -58,7 +58,7 @@ func GetParseMentionFunc(dbConn db.DB, federator federation.Federator) gtsmodel.
 			}
 
 			remoteAccount, err := federator.GetAccountByUsernameDomain(
-				transport.WithFastfail(ctx),
+				gtscontext.SetFastFail(ctx),
 				requestingUsername,
 				username,
 				domain,