[chore] bump dependencies (#4406)

- codeberg.org/gruf/go-ffmpreg: v0.6.9 -> v0.6.10
- github.com/ncruces/go-sqlite3: v0.27.1 -> v0.28.0
- github.com/stretchr/testify: v1.10.0 -> v1.11.1
- github.com/tdewolff/minify/v2 v2.23.11 -> v2.24.2
- go.opentelemetry.io/otel{,/*}: v1.37.0 -> v1.38.0
- go.opentelemetry.io/contrib/*: v0.62.0 -> v0.63.0

Reviewed-on: https://codeberg.org/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/pulls/4406
Co-authored-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>
Co-committed-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>

vendor/github.com/spf13/pflag/flag.go

@@ -137,12 +137,17 @@ const (
 	PanicOnError
 )
 
-// ParseErrorsWhitelist defines the parsing errors that can be ignored
-type ParseErrorsWhitelist struct {
+// ParseErrorsAllowlist defines the parsing errors that can be ignored
+type ParseErrorsAllowlist struct {
 	// UnknownFlags will ignore unknown flags errors and continue parsing rest of the flags
 	UnknownFlags bool
 }
 
+// ParseErrorsWhitelist defines the parsing errors that can be ignored.
+//
+// Deprecated: use [ParseErrorsAllowlist] instead. This type will be removed in a future release.
+type ParseErrorsWhitelist = ParseErrorsAllowlist
+
 // NormalizedName is a flag name that has been normalized according to rules
 // for the FlagSet (e.g. making '-' and '_' equivalent).
 type NormalizedName string
@@ -158,8 +163,13 @@ type FlagSet struct {
 	// help/usage messages.
 	SortFlags bool
 
-	// ParseErrorsWhitelist is used to configure a whitelist of errors
-	ParseErrorsWhitelist ParseErrorsWhitelist
+	// ParseErrorsAllowlist is used to configure an allowlist of errors
+	ParseErrorsAllowlist ParseErrorsAllowlist
+
+	// ParseErrorsAllowlist is used to configure an allowlist of errors.
+	//
+	// Deprecated: use [FlagSet.ParseErrorsAllowlist] instead. This field will be removed in a future release.
+	ParseErrorsWhitelist ParseErrorsAllowlist
 
 	name              string
 	parsed            bool
@@ -928,7 +938,6 @@ func VarP(value Value, name, shorthand, usage string) {
 // returns the error.
 func (f *FlagSet) fail(err error) error {
 	if f.errorHandling != ContinueOnError {
-		fmt.Fprintln(f.Output(), err)
 		f.usage()
 	}
 	return err
@@ -986,6 +995,8 @@ func (f *FlagSet) parseLongArg(s string, args []string, fn parseFunc) (a []strin
 			f.usage()
 			return a, ErrHelp
 		case f.ParseErrorsWhitelist.UnknownFlags:
+			fallthrough
+		case f.ParseErrorsAllowlist.UnknownFlags:
 			// --unknown=unknownval arg ...
 			// we do not want to lose arg in this case
 			if len(split) >= 2 {
@@ -1044,6 +1055,8 @@ func (f *FlagSet) parseSingleShortArg(shorthands string, args []string, fn parse
 			err = ErrHelp
 			return
 		case f.ParseErrorsWhitelist.UnknownFlags:
+			fallthrough
+		case f.ParseErrorsAllowlist.UnknownFlags:
 			// '-f=arg arg ...'
 			// we do not want to lose arg in this case
 			if len(shorthands) > 2 && shorthands[1] == '=' {
@@ -1158,12 +1171,12 @@ func (f *FlagSet) Parse(arguments []string) error {
 	}
 	f.parsed = true
 
+	f.args = make([]string, 0, len(arguments))
+
 	if len(arguments) == 0 {
 		return nil
 	}
 
-	f.args = make([]string, 0, len(arguments))
-
 	set := func(flag *Flag, value string) error {
 		return f.Set(flag.Name, value)
 	}
@@ -1174,7 +1187,10 @@ func (f *FlagSet) Parse(arguments []string) error {
 		case ContinueOnError:
 			return err
 		case ExitOnError:
-			fmt.Println(err)
+			if err == ErrHelp {
+				os.Exit(0)
+			}
+			fmt.Fprintln(f.Output(), err)
 			os.Exit(2)
 		case PanicOnError:
 			panic(err)
@@ -1200,6 +1216,10 @@ func (f *FlagSet) ParseAll(arguments []string, fn func(flag *Flag, value string)
 		case ContinueOnError:
 			return err
 		case ExitOnError:
+			if err == ErrHelp {
+				os.Exit(0)
+			}
+			fmt.Fprintln(f.Output(), err)
 			os.Exit(2)
 		case PanicOnError:
 			panic(err)