[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/ap/extract.go

@@ -529,6 +529,10 @@ func ExtractEmoji(i Emojiable) (*gtsmodel.Emoji, error) {
 	}
 	emoji.ImageRemoteURL = imageURL.String()
 
+	// assume false for both to begin
+	emoji.Disabled = new(bool)
+	emoji.VisibleInPicker = new(bool)
+
 	return emoji, nil
 }