[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/federation/federatingactor_test.go

@@ -82,9 +82,9 @@ func (suite *FederatingActorTestSuite) TestSendRemoteFollower() {
 		UpdatedAt:       testrig.TimeMustParse("2022-06-02T12:22:21+02:00"),
 		AccountID:       testRemoteAccount.ID,
 		TargetAccountID: testAccount.ID,
-		ShowReblogs:     true,
+		ShowReblogs:     testrig.TrueBool(),
 		URI:             "http://fossbros-anonymous.io/users/foss_satan/follows/01G1TRWV4AYCDBX5HRWT2EVBCV",
-		Notify:          false,
+		Notify:          testrig.FalseBool(),
 	})
 	suite.NoError(err)