[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/media/processingemoji.go

@@ -230,6 +230,9 @@ func (m *manager) preProcessEmoji(ctx context.Context, data DataFunc, postData P
 		return nil, fmt.Errorf("preProcessEmoji: error fetching this instance account from the db: %s", err)
 	}
 
+	disabled := false
+	visibleInPicker := true
+
 	// populate initial fields on the emoji -- some of these will be overwritten as we proceed
 	emoji := &gtsmodel.Emoji{
 		ID:                     id,
@@ -248,9 +251,9 @@ func (m *manager) preProcessEmoji(ctx context.Context, data DataFunc, postData P
 		ImageFileSize:          0,
 		ImageStaticFileSize:    0,
 		ImageUpdatedAt:         time.Now(),
-		Disabled:               false,
+		Disabled:               &disabled,
 		URI:                    uri,
-		VisibleInPicker:        true,
+		VisibleInPicker:        &visibleInPicker,
 		CategoryID:             "",
 	}
 
@@ -274,11 +277,11 @@ func (m *manager) preProcessEmoji(ctx context.Context, data DataFunc, postData P
 		}
 
 		if ai.Disabled != nil {
-			emoji.Disabled = *ai.Disabled
+			emoji.Disabled = ai.Disabled
 		}
 
 		if ai.VisibleInPicker != nil {
-			emoji.VisibleInPicker = *ai.VisibleInPicker
+			emoji.VisibleInPicker = ai.VisibleInPicker
 		}
 
 		if ai.CategoryID != nil {