[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/processing/account/delete.go

@@ -285,8 +285,10 @@ selectStatusesLoop:
 	account.HeaderRemoteURL = ""
 	account.Reason = ""
 	account.Fields = []gtsmodel.Field{}
-	account.HideCollections = true
-	account.Discoverable = false
+	hideCollections := true
+	account.HideCollections = &hideCollections
+	discoverable := false
+	account.Discoverable = &discoverable
 
 	account.SuspendedAt = time.Now()
 	account.SuspensionOrigin = origin