[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/processing/user/user_test.go

@@ -40,8 +40,8 @@ type UserStandardTestSuite struct {
 }
 
 func (suite *UserStandardTestSuite) SetupTest() {
-	testrig.InitTestLog()
 	testrig.InitTestConfig()
+	testrig.InitTestLog()
 
 	suite.db = testrig.NewTestDB()
 	suite.sentEmails = make(map[string]string)