[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/validate/domainblock_test.go

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@ import (
 	"github.com/stretchr/testify/suite"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/gtsmodel"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/validate"
+	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/testrig"
 )
 
 func happyDomainBlock() *gtsmodel.DomainBlock {
@@ -36,7 +37,7 @@ func happyDomainBlock() *gtsmodel.DomainBlock {
 		CreatedByAccountID: "01FEED79PRMVWPRMFHFQM8MJQN",
 		PrivateComment:     "we don't like em",
 		PublicComment:      "poo poo dudes",
-		Obfuscate:          false,
+		Obfuscate:          testrig.FalseBool(),
 		SubscriptionID:     "",
 	}
 }