[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/validate/user_test.go

@@ -26,6 +26,7 @@ import (
 	"github.com/stretchr/testify/suite"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/gtsmodel"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/validate"
+	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/testrig"
 )
 
 func happyUser() *gtsmodel.User {
@@ -54,10 +55,10 @@ func happyUser() *gtsmodel.User {
 		ConfirmedAt:            time.Now(),
 		ConfirmationSentAt:     time.Time{},
 		UnconfirmedEmail:       "",
-		Moderator:              false,
-		Admin:                  false,
-		Disabled:               false,
-		Approved:               true,
+		Moderator:              testrig.FalseBool(),
+		Admin:                  testrig.FalseBool(),
+		Disabled:               testrig.FalseBool(),
+		Approved:               testrig.TrueBool(),
 	}
 }