[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

vendor/github.com/uptrace/bun/schema/field.go

@@ -32,6 +32,7 @@ type Field struct {
 	NotNull       bool
 	NullZero      bool
 	AutoIncrement bool
+	Identity      bool
 
 	Append AppenderFunc
 	Scan   ScannerFunc
@@ -120,6 +121,10 @@ func (f *Field) ScanValue(strct reflect.Value, src interface{}) error {
 	return f.ScanWithCheck(fv, src)
 }
 
+func (f *Field) SkipUpdate() bool {
+	return f.Tag.HasOption("skipupdate")
+}
+
 func indexEqual(ind1, ind2 []int) bool {
 	if len(ind1) != len(ind2) {
 		return false