[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

vendor/github.com/uptrace/bun/schema/scan.go

@@ -449,6 +449,11 @@ func PtrScanner(fn ScannerFunc) ScannerFunc {
 		if dest.IsNil() {
 			dest.Set(reflect.New(dest.Type().Elem()))
 		}
+
+		if dest.Kind() == reflect.Map {
+			return fn(dest, src)
+		}
+
 		return fn(dest.Elem(), src)
 	}
 }