[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

vendor/modernc.org/sqlite/rulimit.go

@@ -0,0 +1,19 @@
+// Copyright 2021 The Sqlite Authors. All rights reserved.
+// Use of this source code is governed by a BSD-style
+// license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
+
+//go:build linux || darwin || netbsd || openbsd
+// +build linux darwin netbsd openbsd
+
+package sqlite // import "modernc.org/sqlite"
+
+import (
+	"golang.org/x/sys/unix"
+)
+
+func setMaxOpenFiles(n int64) error {
+	var rLimit unix.Rlimit
+	rLimit.Max = uint64(n)
+	rLimit.Cur = uint64(n)
+	return unix.Setrlimit(unix.RLIMIT_NOFILE, &rLimit)
+}