[chore] Change default database in example config to sqlite, update docs. (#4174)

As discussed in Matrix chat.

* Change DB in example config to sqlite.
* Clarify config settings which only apply to postgres.
* Update getting started docs; no need to change example config any more.
* In "single board computers" mention SD card corruption risk.

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Reviewed-on: https://codeberg.org/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/pulls/4174
Co-authored-by: Phil Hagelberg <phil@hagelb.org>
Co-committed-by: Phil Hagelberg <phil@hagelb.org>

docs/getting_started/installation/metal.md

@@ -63,8 +63,6 @@ You'll probably need to change the following settings:
 
 - Set `host` to whatever hostname you're going to be running the server on (eg., `example.org`).
 - Set `port` to `443`.
-- Set `db-type` to `sqlite`.
-- Set `db-address` to `sqlite.db`.
 - Set `storage-local-base-path` to the storage directory you created above (eg., `/gotosocial/storage`).
 - Set `letsencrypt-enabled` to `true`.
 - Set `letsencrypt-cert-dir` to the certificate storage directory you created above (eg., `/gotosocial/storage/certs`).