[chore] Simplify the OTEL setup (#4110)

# Description

This simplifies our OTEL setup by:

* Getting rid of some deprecated things.
* Using `autoexport` and letting things get configured by the `OTEL_` environment variables.
* Removing all the unnecessary config options.

## Checklist

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- [x] I/we have performed a self-review of added code.
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- [x] I/we have made any necessary changes to documentation.
- [ ] I/we have added tests that cover new code.
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Reviewed-on: https://codeberg.org/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/pulls/4110
Reviewed-by: tobi <kipvandenbos@noreply.codeberg.org>
Co-authored-by: Daenney <daenney@noreply.codeberg.org>
Co-committed-by: Daenney <daenney@noreply.codeberg.org>

internal/api/metrics/no_metrics.go

@@ -1,31 +0,0 @@
-// GoToSocial
-// Copyright (C) GoToSocial Authors admin@gotosocial.org
-// SPDX-License-Identifier: AGPL-3.0-or-later
-//
-// This program is free software: you can redistribute it and/or modify
-// it under the terms of the GNU Affero General Public License as published by
-// the Free Software Foundation, either version 3 of the License, or
-// (at your option) any later version.
-//
-// This program is distributed in the hope that it will be useful,
-// but WITHOUT ANY WARRANTY; without even the implied warranty of
-// MERCHANTABILITY or FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE.  See the
-// GNU Affero General Public License for more details.
-//
-// You should have received a copy of the GNU Affero General Public License
-// along with this program.  If not, see <http://www.gnu.org/licenses/>.
-
-//go:build nootel
-
-package metrics
-
-import (
-	"github.com/gin-gonic/gin"
-)
-
-type Module struct{}
-
-func New() *Module { return &Module{} }
-
-func (m *Module) Route(attachHandler func(method string, path string, f ...gin.HandlerFunc) gin.IRoutes) {
-}