[feature] Read + Write tombstones for deleted Actors (#1005)

* [feature] Read + Write tombstones for deleted Actors

* copyTombstone

* update to use resultcache instead of old ttl cache

Signed-off-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>

* update go-cache library to fix result cache capacity / ordering bugs

Signed-off-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>

* bump go-cache/v3 to v3.1.6 to fix bugs

Signed-off-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>

* switch on status code

* better explain ErrGone reasoning

Signed-off-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: kim <grufwub@gmail.com>

vendor/github.com/cespare/xxhash/xxhash_unsafe.go

@@ -0,0 +1,30 @@
+// +build !appengine
+
+// This file encapsulates usage of unsafe.
+// xxhash_safe.go contains the safe implementations.
+
+package xxhash
+
+import (
+	"reflect"
+	"unsafe"
+)
+
+// Sum64String computes the 64-bit xxHash digest of s.
+// It may be faster than Sum64([]byte(s)) by avoiding a copy.
+//
+// TODO(caleb): Consider removing this if an optimization is ever added to make
+// it unnecessary: https://golang.org/issue/2205.
+//
+// TODO(caleb): We still have a function call; we could instead write Go/asm
+// copies of Sum64 for strings to squeeze out a bit more speed.
+func Sum64String(s string) uint64 {
+	// See https://groups.google.com/d/msg/golang-nuts/dcjzJy-bSpw/tcZYBzQqAQAJ
+	// for some discussion about this unsafe conversion.
+	var b []byte
+	bh := (*reflect.SliceHeader)(unsafe.Pointer(&b))
+	bh.Data = (*reflect.StringHeader)(unsafe.Pointer(&s)).Data
+	bh.Len = len(s)
+	bh.Cap = len(s)
+	return Sum64(b)
+}